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Posted on February 26, 2008 in Latest News
Children are indeed the most beautiful creatures on earth. But what makes them beautiful is the innocence and happiness that fill their mind full of curiosity and their bubbly nature. However, unfortunately, not all children have a gifted mind after all. The charm of childhood is overpowered by a least welcome enemy- inferiority complex.
Children suffering from an inferiority complex isolate themselves from others and become preoccupied with their feelings of inferiority. As they grow up they are unable to face failures and they feel they don’t have what it takes to succeed in life.
Saving a child from inferiority complex takes all the good that parents can do to their little ones, since this is mostly a feeling that harbours at home. Parents should make a serious effort also to see that the child fares well emotionally at school and with playmates. Here are some useful guidelines parents could use to see to it that inferiority complex is weeded out of their kids:
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March 25th, 2008 at 5:03 pm
Extremely difficult to not ever critisize your child/ difficult for parent to never get frustraed. Give a bettter explination..such as add what you should do along with the shouldn’ts along with using don’t, use this is how it should happen or explain or correct, teach…Sounds alot more like pampering which is an inferiority complex..use power of correcting rather than critisizing. Important to praise the child but not necessarily all of the time, one on one, rather than with friends. CHOOSE WORDS CAREFULLY. Make sure while praising one child, not making the other feel inferior. When you say everylittle thing they do praise them for it sounds like pampering.
March 25th, 2008 at 5:52 pm
In the second bullet, “make your child always feel special”, we believe that is a form of inferiority complex called pampering.If a parent praises the child for everything they do, then when they do something extraordinary, they’re not going to feel any more special about it. They’re just going to think that everything they do is amazing. Certain levels of achievement should be praiseable. We agree with the first bullet, however it is important to keep in mind that attempts at comparison can sometimes be done without any offense. For instance, one may notice that another plays the guitar with a different style than the other, but both have the same level of talent. As to the third bullet, we believe that if in teaching errors and mistakes to a child, those mistakes continue to be made, then a stronger approach must be taken to fix the problem. For example, if a child swears at their parents, teaching them through personalizing and using the “do unto others” idea aviods criticism and yet can fix the problem. And finally, if a parent were to praise their kids in front of their friends, they should choose their words carefully, so as not to insult the friends and make them feel inferior, or to make their kid become self-centered. Choosing your words carefully is difficult, but important, whether it is praise or criticism. There is always a chance that we sometimes don’t have enough time to think about our words. In the stress of the moment it is nearly impossible in many cases to choose your words properly, whether with a child, or any other human being, but we get your point.
April 1st, 2008 at 2:36 am
I agree that children are beautiful gifts to the world and that they need to be nurtured well but they do not always have an inferiority complex. It is the way that they are nurtured that cause this complex within them. I understand what you mean when you say they have one but it is not too clear. If nurturing is healthy from the beginning then the child will not have an inferiority complex to worry about. As for how to treat your child in order to save them from the complex it is mostly good information. It may be slightly over doing it because it makes parents seem that if they do not act a perfect way every single second of the day then their child will become abnormal when this is not true. It is important to treat you child as a special gift but there is a point when it can be overdone and you do not want to nurture them too much and praise them all the time because they could end up with an inferiority complex from that. Yet, overall i agree with this article and it making the inferiority complex known.
April 3rd, 2008 at 11:10 pm
It seems like the teasing and such that has grown into society today is what is causing the Inferiority of todays children and adults.