How to Get Your Kids to Behave
How to get your kids to behave? It is a long process as you know. Your newborn starts learning even before they are born, that is within the mothers womb. You can start speaking to them as they tend get used to the sounds and voices. As they grow you start teaching those tiny things like making her smile, teaching her to say words and so on. Its important to make them understand what is right and what is wrong.
Do not shout or scream at them to do things or to stop them from doing something. Instead make them feel that you are in the same team and guide them to learn better.These are the some easy ways to make your child understand how to behave:
Make your bonds stronger.
Improve your relationship by being cooperative to your child and encourage them. If you are always behind your child to do things right and punish them for misbehaving, it spoils your relation and makes both of you feel bad. Instead correct them once and praise them many times for the good things and give them compliments for their work. Each day spend a little time with your child by doing something which they enjoy.
Try be a booster dose to your child.
Its good for your child to resolve controversies with their siblings and playmates on their own. You can support them but make them understand that words do the work than screaming. Give them freedom to do as much small work as possible on their own. It helps to boost their confidence.
Instead of shouting at your child, be calm and tell them to do things like turn off the T.V. or computer games. Then they may try to argue with you, but they won’t get irritated. Support them by saying you agree that computer games are more fun than homework. Later make them understand how studies are important and how to maintain the time for both.
Make them to learn good.
Mostly kids start to do things that they usually see around them. For example, they observe while their parents talk and behave in the same way. Its very important that what your child learns because as it is the beginning stage they keep it for the whole life. So see to it that you don’t use foul language or fight before your kids. Talk politely and be calm.
Similarly, there are many such things which parents need to learn first to mould their child better to make them good human beings