Posted on October 26, 2007 in Latest News
Kids can be a nuisance and parents certainly have the right to correct them. Ensure that whatever form of punishment you subject them to, is not harsh enough to cause physical or emotional pain. Discipline is always an uncomfortable element that exists between parents and children. However, a child needs to understand how to balance things in life. When parents try to discipline their children, it is this concept of balance that they are trying to instill in their children.
The form of punishment can be hard for a parent to decide but it is important for you to win this game as children can be very manipulative. Your kid can throw tantrums and try deluding you from your aim of disciplining them, but stick to your rules and be aware of the soft and harsh notes that you need to keep reshuffling with.
Parents should never be afraid of beating their children. The only thing that needs to be taken care of is that they should do this not out of impulse but with the deliberate act of correcting their wrong ways and bad habits. If you don’t correct them, they will do what they think is right. Kids today think that their opinions matter and they can have the last word, but this is where you need to check them.
How and when to smack your kid:
- When you see your kid doing something wrong, smack the face with the back of your hand to have a stinging but a temporary effect.
- Verbally identify your kid’s mistake. When they look down to check, bust the lips. Always keep them alert of your intentions to catch them red handed if they do something wrong.
- Give three or four whacks on the back to make them stop doing something you think is wrong.
- Smack the kid when he or she uses foul language or shows an interest towards unnatural things not yet meant for their age.
- Use the dragon kick to have lasting effects on your child. Apply this when your kid gets really stubborn with things like washing, cleaning, etc.
- Flicking the side or back of the head with your hand or finger can be used when your kid is not getting things right while studying or reading.
- A quick smack can be used to control your kids and friends if they disrespect somebody. You can also speed your car forward and back to make them stop.
- If you are too old or weak to control your child then use a cane to trip the kid.
Anger does not reap good results as your child gradually becomes immune to the yelling and shouting. Moreover most of what you really want to say gets subdued by your constant screaming and shouting. Maintain your calm and try not losing your temper as it has little effects and leaves you all frustrated, and frustration can cause violent outbursts which may be harmful for your kid.
Your child should listen to you as a result of realizing his or her mistake, and not out of a routine expectation. Beat your kid only when you think it is essential. Never make this style of discipline a habit for you. This would only tire and annoy you further. It is really not worth it. Instead, be smarter than your kid and trick him or her to every prank.
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November 18th, 2007 at 6:24 am
i like gaining more about child rearing, cos I have three children two are 4 and 2 years old I find difficult some times making them cool, the young one always cries for nothing and I am rather hot on nonsece screaming so I sometimes beat her.
January 31st, 2008 at 3:03 am
Are you serious???
April 30th, 2008 at 8:46 pm
ARE YOU CRAZY???????????? I RAISED FIVE CHILDREN WITHOUT RESORTING TO THE PHYSICAL PUNISHMENT YOU ADVOCATE AND THEY ARE RESPECTFUL, USEFUL, GOOD PEOPLE AND HAVE ALL BEEN SUCCESSFUL IN THEIR LIVES. YOU MUST BE A VERY INSECURE AND NOT TOO BRIGHT PERSON TO HAVE TO RESORT TO VIOLENCE AGAINST A CHILD!!!!!!!!!